Churlish Chucky's Vol. 1

For some, this concept may appear unusual, surprising, or unfamiliar. However, It is crucial to understand that God, the divine creator of all things, has meticulously planned every detail. He was aware of what he had fashioned from the dust, therefore, nothing catches Him off guard, He does not find it strange, and is not ignorant of human capabilities. Consider a person who is kind, open and met with indifference, yet their companions do not reciprocate in the same manner. The truth is revealed through time and testing. So, let's address the core question: Can a friend turn into an enemy? Or rather, can a friend in the TRUTH become an adversary? Let's explore the perspective of the Creator, the All-Knowing, the God above all who reigns in omnipotence, for His divine insight.

Ecclesiasticus 37:2

2 Is it not a grief unto death, when a companion and friend is turned to an enemy?

In the intricate tapestry of life, friendships are often believed to be unbreakable bonds forged in trust and loyalty. However, there are moments when the true nature of a friend is revealed, unraveling the facade of friendship to expose the harsh reality beneath. Once, there were two friends who shared a deep connection, bound by shared experiences and unwavering support for each other. They laughed together in times of joy and stood by each other in moments of despair. Their friendship seemed unshakeable, a testament to the strength of their bond. As time passed and trials tested their resolve, the true colors in a friend began to surface.

Beneath the veneer of friendship lay envy, deceit, and betrayal. Slowly but surely, the once trusted companion transformed into a formidable enemy, driven by jealousy and malice. Good can't cast out good, likewise; evil can't cast out evil that is an unjust balance. In God's plan, there's an exciting blend of good and evil that keeps everything perfectly balanced! The revelation of this friend turning into an enemy was a bitter pill to swallow, a stark reminder of the complexities of human nature. It was a part of a grand design beyond their understanding, a test of character orchestrated by a higher power. As it is written, a friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

As the friendship crumbled and gave way to enmity, both friends found themselves on opposite sides of a once harmonious relationship. The betrayal cut deep, leaving wounds that may never fully heal. And yet, in the midst of this turmoil, there was a realization that perhaps this transformation was a necessary part of their individual journeys. This however was already written and it reads: If thou hast opened thy mouth against thy friend, fear not; for there may be a reconciliation: except for upbraiding, or pride, or disclosing of secrets, or a treacherous wound: for these things every friend will depart. Moreover, it would be wise to rehearse not unto another that which is told unto thee, and thou shalt fare never the worse. Whether it be to friend or foe, talk not of other men's lives; and if thou canst without offence, reveal them not. Why? There's consequences to everything: For he heard and observed thee, and when time cometh he will hate thee. If thou hast heard a word, let it die with thee; and be bold, it will not burst thee. Some people can't even apply this simple scripture because they have to talk but, it doesn't have to be that way. Biblical solutions must be utilized and weigh thy words in a balance, and make a door and bar for thy mouth.

For in the unraveling of a friendship lies the opportunity for growth, introspection, and ultimately, acceptance. The friend turned enemy may have been an eye-opening revelation, but it was a crucial chapter in the intricate design of their lives, a lesson in resilience and forgiveness. Forgiveness? Yes, forgiveness. You're doing it for yourself and not them. Forgiveness is one of the most profound and transformative acts we can perform. We've all fallen short yes, however; it is an act of compassion in this dwindling period of grace. Doing this, it's a divine principle that liberates the soul. Nonetheless, lets be clear forgiveness does not mean forgetting, erasing the past or pretending it never happened. Instead, it means releasing the burden of bitterness and pain while still holding on to the lessons learned. When we forgive we set ourselves free, releasing the grip of anger, resentment and hurt that binds us to the past. Remember the LORD is watching and recording so don't let your grieveances out-weigh the sum of your greatness. You do this, you're winning:

Ecclesiasticus 28:2

2 Forgive thy neighbour the hurt that he hath done unto thee, so shall thy sins also be forgiven when thou prayest.

INFLUENCE > CONTROL

Influence holds more power than control. To be influential is straightforward—consider yeast. Once dough rises, it's already been yeasted. The yeast acts silently, without interacting with the flour. Similarly, salt works quietly, permeating and enhancing the entire piece of meat. Light, too, exemplifies this: when the switch is turned off, a room darkens; when turned on, light fills the space effortlessly. Light doesn't battle darkness; it simply exists, and darkness cannot overcome it. That's why you remain silent when attacked—light doesn't contend with darkness. Remember, "Ye are the light." So, step out tomorrow as a radiant light, be like salt that enriches everything you touch, and engage with others like yeast, sharing in their interests. Keep it straightforward, avoiding unnecessary complications. Stay away from complex additives like aggravating Adobo and Mrs. Dash madness. Sincerity, is the essence of true friendship.

WHEN TRUST RUST

Trust is the essential thread that binds a friendship, integrating respect and integrity into a strong bond. Without trust, relationships falter, as it forms the foundation for everything. Its absence reduces a friendship to a shadow, unable to withstand challenges. Trust fosters safety and openness, allowing love to flourish without fear. It ensures that promises are honored and feelings considered. Without trust, doubt and suspicion arise. Trust erodes gradually through lies and betrayals, chipping away at the foundation. Lies plant seeds of doubt, affecting perceptions and self-view. Betrayal shatters safety, forcing painful truths. It questions past experiences and intentions, making it hard to move forward. Were the good times real? Was their love genuine? Can they truly change?

Rebuilding trust requires honesty, consistency, and commitment from both parties. The one who broke the trust must be accountable for their actions, prove their sincerity, while the hurt one must forgive. The process is challenging, and every misstep can undo progress. Rebuilding may be worthwhile for strong friendships with isolated incidents, but for others, the damage is too great. Once broken, trust alters friendship dynamics, replacing happiness with caution and overshadowing joy with fear. Even if reconciled, the friendship may never feel the same.

RESPECT IS ESSENTIAL

Respect is to a relationship what water is to a plant. Nurturing any relationship or friendship with respect encourages love, trust, and mutual understanding, leading to growth. It goes beyond polite gestures, honoring individuality, boundaries, and worth, creating a safe space where both parties feel valued and heard. Without respect, friendships unravel, leading to resentment and a sense of unworthiness. Disrespect undermines genuine love and friendship, manifesting in subtle or overt ways, such as dismissive comments, public humiliation, a sarcastic tone, or outright insults meant to belittle or demean. These behaviors are some of the most insidious aspects of disrespect, capable to erode self-worth and create a toxic environment.

Anyone riddled with disrespect becomes a battleground rather than a sanctuary, people end up feeling like they're always being attacked or put down. Tolerating disrespect sends the message that such behavior is acceptable, diminishing your sense of worth. True strength lies in setting boundaries and demanding respect, even if it means difficult conversations or walking away. Respect, like trust, is foundational; without it, love and communication crumbles. A true friend values you and maintains respect, even in anger. Respect is not just a courtesy but a reflection of their commitment to you as a friend. Excusing disrespect betrays yourself and harms your well-being, as love without respect is not love but control, manipulation or convenience.

FAKE FRIENDS

Many brothers and sisters have a close-knit group of friends, or so they thought. Don't be surprised when people you thought supported you never really did. For some and not all may have had a gut feeling or intuition at the noticeable downturns they've routinely commit. For certainty, the good Book has never lied because when their actions have been quoted and have seen it played out in realtime, this forces me to stay in that Book and just let God's words work. For instance, a man tells a "friend" in a candid conversation that he's on a trip to Dublin, Ireland and will be back in a fews days. Then, the said-same details of their conversation is heard in the congregation.

Man or woman when these people chat too much, the Book calls them talebearers.

Proverbs 13:11

11 A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.

This precept is easy to be understood and be upheld with integrity. How horrible, It's a gamble when you speak and to whom. Note to self, water can't be carried in a straw basket. It's a sad and harsh reality to having a normal conversation and the other person turns it over to other people. People like this are not only fake they're some classless wretch.

Ecclesiasticus 27:16-17

16 Whoso discovereth secrets loseth his credit; and shall never find friend to his mind.

There's a cause and effect in every circumstance, here; the Book teaches that if anybody reveals secrets you're no longer creditable, and shall never find friend to his mind. So if someone is acting brand new towards you. Self examine, reflect and consider yuh dutty ways. Howbeit, with any inkling of a clue that may pop up in your demented brain you'll understand why the offended avoids the offender.

17 Love thy friend, and be faithful unto him: but if thou betrayest his secrets, follow no more after him.

Love thy friend according to the law and be faithful unto him: but that's too hard telling people's business is your forte. Thank goodness for this solution to follow no more after him. Additionally, reading this should give us comfort, for the Book recorded it aforetime and losing fake friends is definitely a plus.

This diabolical reproach is on another level and unmistakably below the belt. At this point, I can confidently say that challenging times are ahead. It's a tangled mix of dishonesty and an insult to one's intelligence. Discernment was the only tool used to decipher this folly. The preverbal clicking and echoing were obvious; nevertheless, I kept talking because when you walk in the spirit of truth, there's nothing to hide. Furthermore, realizing the blatant disrespect, I exercised fearlessness, resilience, and fortitude in that everyday conversation. This was indeed the point of no return, the feeling of being disposed, violated, acutely observed, and scrutinized due to the insecurities of a non-progressive element. There is no regard for individuals with churlish behaviors. So, what is the outcome after the employing of such instrument of the churl?

Proverbs 18:19

19 A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.

Consider those medieval wars with fortified walls, known as walled cities. During a siege, breaching these defenses was nearly impossible for the opposing army. This analogy perfectly illustrates the challenge of reconciling with an offended brother. Winning back their trust after betrayal is exceedingly difficult. Regardless of how much the offender humbles himself, the wronged individual remains unconvinced, viewing him or her with heightened suspicion. With established boundaries, conversations become arid due to deep-seated disappointments, resembling the impenetrable bars of a castle where nothing gets in and nothing gets out.

When people reveal their true selves through their actions, believe them. Neither our King nor the apostles ever left us with these antichrist traits as examples for how to treat one another. Regardless of the reason, I was not preferred but unfairly rejected. Despite encountering dishonesty, deceit, and disingenuous behavior, I prioritized deep thought and reading. Relying on the Book to open my eyes far beyond the natural realm. I was a good friend and brethren, and I deserved better. Though I felt betrayed, I refused to let it keep me down, learning whom to trust. Determined to rise above this betrayal, I chose to step back and reflect on my friendships. I recognized that true friends are those who support and uplift, not tear down. I began focusing on my own well-being and surrounded myself with positive influences.

TRUTH HURTS

"When the truth hurts" signifies that, although honesty is crucial, the reality or feedback can sometimes be difficult to accept, particularly if it exposes unfavorable elements about oneself or a situation. However, confronting it is often essential for personal development and progress. This is where wisdom becomes evident. Consider this scenario: the corrective approach would be to view this in terms of prophecy if you are enlightened. Unfortunately, more often than not, a person can err in vision particularly when pride is involved. When you don't know someone and have never met them, relying solely on someone else's assessment can make a thin line appear wide. Consequently, choosing not to investigate a matter leads to character breakdowns due to ill-informed judgments based on hearsay.

Consider this: When we encounter a painful truth, are we able to be humble and gracious enough to accept it rather than dismiss it? Can we let down our guard and be receptive to growth, even when it's difficult? What is a difficult truth someone has told you that you initially rejected but could view as beneficial or supportive for your development?

What's my angle?

The goal is to raise awareness among future followers. It's not about discouraging them but about educating and informing them about these parasitic individuals they might encounter. Needless to say, in these final days, such betrayals are significant and will become even worse. Anyone who reads understands, as it's already documented, and it's only a matter of time before violence erupts. Remember, I'm the victim here, but I don't harbor hatred for my brothers. Moreover, I can't act against the truth, only in support of it. Therefore, I'm not an unstable, resentful Israelite inflamed in a gall of bitterness who didn't get his way. I wish it were that simple; this concerns the sinful nature of humanity. When you become averse to sin, it becomes repulsive to you, making it difficult to engage in. Failing to develop a strong and healthy aversion to leave off from sin will first appear in your thoughts and then manifest in your actions over time. Need more convincing? Consult J.U.D.A.S.

Letting go.

I read, therefore; I'm not surprised by man's destructive ability to rip apart the tapestry of friendship by their unrighteous dealings. That's only one aspect of many why the kingdom is translated from one people to another. Similarly, suretiship has ruined many of good standing, tossing them like a wave in the sea: it has forced mighty men out of their homes, causing them to roam among strange nations. When people betray you and talk behind your back, the only way to see someone's true colors is by giving them all the freedom to be exactly who they want to be. You can't force a cheater to be loyal, turn a bad friend into a good one, or make a liar suddenly find their moral compass. If you think like this, what you really want is control over these people and their actions because you're clinging to an illusion you've built of who they are. Let's be real, that's never who they really were! The sooner you understand this, the sooner you'll realize that real power comes from observing and making decisions based on what you've seen. Stop trying to mold someone into something they're not! Stop demanding, stop fighting, and stop pretending they can ever become the version you want. If it's not in their character, it's not happening. Trust me, once you let go, you can breathe and take control of your peace.

FAITHFUL FRIENDS

Finding faithful friends is crucial for establishing a stable brotherhood initiative. With clear and straightforward biblical principles, half the work is already done; finding the other half may take some time and effort. Nothing comes easily, as friends can't just be plucked from thin air—they must be vetted and proved. Remember, time is the master, so never be hasty in giving credit. Trust the process; the LORD knows more than us and is faithful in guiding the right people to cross your path. No one can outsmart the ultimate Genius of the Universe; all the cards are in His hand, so never say "I have no friends." The good you have done for others wasn't in vain, as blessings can come in seven different ways of the LORD's choosing.

Two is better than one, which is highly agreeable. If you want to achieve that aspect of life, you must truly understand and commit yourself to the word faithful. My favorite definitions are displayed in the wordgang thumbnail above. As I write to you, others come to mind, so I'll share them with you: "steadfast in affection, allegiance, and loyal." In these last days, having a handful of like-minded, faithful friends with these traits in your life can be very beneficial. I do not shudder at the thought of lost friends or the things done to me. The loss is theirs, not mine, for they were blind to the value in me. Watch the levels:

Ecclesiasticus 33:31

31 If thou have a servant, entreat him as a brother: for thou hast need of him, as of thine own soul: if thou entreat him evil, and he run from thee, which way wilt thou go to seek him? 

People understand this, there's a peculiar treasure being in the service of others. He's a keeper, entreat him as a brother. Why? For thou meaning you have need of him, as of your own soul: but there's a stipulation, if you entreat him evil, and he run from thee, which way will you go to find him when all hell breaks loose? It's a true saying: "you never missed the water until the well runs dry". I digress!  

A faithful friend is someone who is firm and consistent in their support for a person, and who is there for you through the good and bad times. Here are some characteristics of a faithful friend: 

•  A faithful friend: is there for you when you need them, whether that's celebrating with you in your triumphs or sitting with you in your grief. 

•  A faithful friend: listens to you without trying to fix things. 

• A faithful friend: stands up for you and doesn't waver in their support. 

• A faithful friend: remembers important dates and honors your pain and loss. 

• A faithful friend: defends you to others who are less compassionate. 

• A faithful friend: not easily offended if you don't return their calls or texts. 

• A faithful friend: allows your suffering to affect their life and change their own agendas. 

• A faithful friend: knows when to cry with you and when to be strong. 

SURVIVING BETAYAL

Surviving betrayal can be one of the most challenging experiences in life, often leaving us feeling lost and vulnerable. However, in these moments of despair, we can find solace in the wisdom of God. As it is written:

1 Corinthians 10:13

13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

This profound truth reassures us that we are not alone in our struggles, a comforting realization that can often feel elusive in times of hardship. It serves as a reminder that God, in His infinite wisdom and compassion, deeply understands our pain and the burdens we carry. He is not a distant observer; rather, He is intimately aware of our trials and tribulations, offering us solace and guidance through the darkest of times. This divine understanding is not merely theoretical; it translates into tangible support and strength that empowers us to endure and ultimately overcome the challenges we face. By leaning into our faith, we open ourselves to a transformative journey that allows us to discover pathways to healing and resilience. Faith acts as a guiding light, illuminating the way forward even when the road ahead seems obscured by shadows of doubt and despair. It encourages us to trust in a higher purpose and to believe that our experiences, no matter how painful, can lead to profound personal growth.

Moreover, as we navigate through our struggles, we begin to see that our wounds, rather than being mere scars of suffering, can become sources of wisdom and strength. Each challenge we encounter teaches us valuable lessons about ourselves and the world around us. These lessons can foster empathy and compassion, enabling us to connect with others who are also facing their own battles. In this way, our experiences can serve not only our personal development but also contribute to the collective healing of our communities. Thus, by embracing our faith and the understanding that we are supported through our trials, we can embark on a journey of transformation, turning our pain into purpose and our struggles into stepping stones toward a more resilient and enlightened self. This process not only enriches our own lives but also empowers us to uplift those around us, creating a ripple effect of hope and healing in the world.

SOLUTIONS

In this sinful kingdom of Babylon, good and evil will always coexist. However, the Book offers numerous counsels, and its infinite wisdom can guide any soul from turmoil to peace. You may find yourself entangled in the burdens of friendship and betrayal. The heart can grow heavy and weary from internal and external psychological battles. How can you find peace? There are three things that can serve as spiritual gauges to govern one's spiritual well-being.

Firstly, let the peace of God reign over your heart and mind by constructing walls of discernment. Not every word spoken or action taken deserves a place in your soul. Fortify these walls with virtues such as patience, kindness, and self-control. Regard yourselves highly, O kings, and arm your castle with these virtues—they are the guardians that will shield your heart from harm. Intimidation is Child's Play; never allow its presence to overshadow your days.

Secondly, got enemies? Separate thyself from those who seek to harm you. Distance is a shield. Do not engage in their conflicts, for it only fuels their fire. Seek the company of those who bring light, not darkness. Cherish your friends, true friends are like stars in the night sky, guiding you when the path is unclear. They offer support without demand, and their counsel is sincere.

Thirdly, the whisperers and talebearers among you, those who spread rumors and discord, must be addressed. Their whispers are a plague, sowing seeds of mistrust. Remove the talebearer, and strife will cease. Confront them with truth and justice. When their deceit is exposed, their power diminishes. A kingdom united in truth is unshakeable. Armed with these guides, you will return to your life with renewed resolve. Guard your heart with virtues, distance yourself from enemies, cherish true friends, and confront the whisperers. In time, peace and harmony will flourish in your life, a testament to the Book's timeless wisdom.

Written by Shamgar Israel,

Shalawam.